If you’re thinking about popping the question to your one true love, congratulations! But, have you got everything planned for your amazing proposal? If you don’t know where to start, you’ve come to the right place. A marriage proposal has no reset button, so it’s important to get it right from the get-go.
And believe it or not, the proposal is even bigger than the wedding itself. Why? Because how successful it is depends on your partner’s answer and it’s something that everyone will ask about: “Where did you propose?”, “Did you get down on bended knee?”, and so on.
So we’ve put together this ultimate guide to popping the question for an unforgettable marriage proposal.
1. Get their parents blessing
The first and most important thing you should do when popping the question is to ask your partner’s parents for their hand in marriage. It may be an old tradition, but if your partner wants you to get their parents blessing, you must do so. You can consider calling or meeting them in person before you pop the question. This way you won’t hurt or surprise them after you’ve proposed.
2. Find the perfect engagement ring
The next thing you should do is buy a ring you know your significant other will love. You can casually ask them what kind of ring they like, such as do they want one stone or three stones, diamonds along the band, a solid gold band, or a customised ring. You can also try on rings beforehand so you know their size or the style that fits their finger better. If you or they want to keep it a surprise, then ask their family or friends for advice.
3. Pick the right location
Does your partner prefer private or public places? The answer will tell you where to hold the proposal and who to involve. If they prefer a private or semi-private setting, then consider proposing to them at a restaurant, park, or beach with just the two of you or with your family and friends. If your partner loves sports or musicals, you can propose to them at a sports stadium or theatre in front of a large crowd. Most importantly, the location must set the mood or be memorable for both of you.
Thinking of proposing in an exotic or special location? Read our guide on the 35 best places to get engaged in Australia.
4. Practice your proposal
Practicing is key to a successful proposal, so don’t skip this step. By rehearsing your proposal speech in front of a mirror, in the shower, or to your pet, you’ll feel a whole lot more confident when the big moment comes. You should also visit your chosen location and determine from there how you’re going to propose to your loved one. Just don’t plan on burying the ring on a beach or putting it in food or in a machine – protect the ring like it’s your ‘precious’.
5. Make it about them
Although you’re the one doing the proposing, your proposal should be about your partner by incorporating their interests, favourite things or what they enjoy doing the most with you. You can include moments they wouldn’t expect you to remember, like what they ordered on your first date, and you’ll be sure to leave them in awe. It’s your chance to show that you actually know them, love them, and get them.
6. Time it right
The month you choose to propose in can affect the length of your engagement. For example, you should propose in the spring if you or your significant other wants a year-long engagement as you won’t have enough time to plan and prepare for a summer wedding. If you both want a short engagement, then consider proposing in winter so you can get married in spring.
7. Surprise them
Whether or not you’ve talked to your partner about getting married, the point is to make the proposal a surprise. Don’t say you want to go a on hot-air balloon ride if you talked about getting married the previous week, and don’t plan a special date out of the blue if you’re not a romantic person. Also, don’t act any differently or they’ll figure it out.
8. Get down on your knee
This is the moment you’ve been waiting for. Getting down on your knee and saying, “Will you marry me?” while you’re holding out the ring may seem a little corny, but it’s a form of respect when asking your loved one for their hand in marriage. It’s also what they’ll expect from you and their friends will ask about it, so go ahead and do it, but with some element of surprise.
9. Make a short and sweet proposal speech
Say only a few of the things you love about your partner and why you want to marry them. You can write down all of the other qualities you love about them on paper and give it to them to read later. They’ll thank you and love you all the more for it! You should also be heartfelt and sincere in your words and actions when proposing.
10. Get it on camera or video
Your proposal is going to be one of the most important moments in your life, so capture it on camera, video, or both. This way you and your loved one will remember everything that was said and done. You can also share it with your family and friends if they weren’t present. Consider hiring a photographer to secretly take photos of the proposal or ask a tech-savvy friend to film the entire thing and put together a photomontage.
Ready to pop the question?
With these tips in hand, proposing to your loved one should be a breeze. Getting everything right, from the start through to the end, can make your proposal one of the most memorable moments of your life. And one that you and others will talk about and remember for years to come!
If you don’t already have a ring, why not take a look at Australian Diamond Brokers stunning range of engagement rings. We can also help you design your own ring for a unique, personal touch. Contact us today and we’ll work with you to find the perfect ring or create a truly special, one-of-a-kind piece that’ll be sure to make your significant other say, “Yes!”
by Australian Diamond Brokers : August 21st 2017 Come visit our store or browse our website to find out more.